CALLING ALL DISCOURAGED MOMS
who are tired of the never-ending meltdowns, power struggles, and disrespectful behavior!

What will it take to finally get your child to listen and get the cooperation and respect you deserve? 

Getting Your Child to Listen Doesn’t Have to Feel Like a Fight.

You’re going to love this solution because it’s radically different from all the parenting advice you’ve tried that never works with your child. This gives you answers at a whole new level!

This powerful training will tell you exactly what you need to do to….

Solve Your Child’s Distressing Behavior and Explosive Meltdowns

Understand why they behave the way they do, know exactly what to do to change it, and gain respect, cooperation and peace in your home.

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Yes, I Need This!
I could see a change in myself and my relationship with my 7-year-old within a short period of time, things just felt easier. My child is more relaxed and secure. It helped me better understand the root causes for his behavior as well as my own patterns. Much more useful and accessible than anything I had found online.
Jaclyn B.

Does Any Of This Sound Like You?

  • You’re in a constant battle with your child – dealing with defiant behavior, power struggles and explosive meltdowns.
  • You try to be calm and in control when your child throws a fit, but your stress levels are through the roof, so you react in a way you regret.
  • Your child does not listen, and you feel ignored and disrespected.
  • You feel helpless and lost in trying to manage the same behavior over and over and you’re tired of yelling and feeling defeated.
  • You knew parenting would be hard, but your kid is really difficult – highly emotional, strong-willed, stubborn, persistent, demanding, out of control. 
  • You are afraid for when they get older if you don’t do something to turn this around now.

Listen, you want the best for your child, and you do everything for them. And you’re being disrespected and challenged every day. Your child is shouting mean things at you and maybe even lashing out aggressively. 

Parenting is the most important thing in your life, so why has it become such an uphill struggle?

Some kids are just more difficult. 

There are times when you just don’t like your kid, sometimes they feel like an enemy.

Many moms share with me the intensity of rage they can feel toward their child, while at the same time a powerful love.

Some days you’re pushed to the edge, and usually it’s over the smallest things. Your child melts down into an angry fit over what seems like nothing. 

If they would just listen to you. 

You don’t want to yell, but when you speak calmly, they completely ignore you. It’s like you’re backed into a corner with nowhere to go, so you end up yelling or blowing up just to get their attention. 

You find yourself thinking…

  • Why do they listen to others (teachers, co-parent) and not me?
  • What did I do in the past – or not do – to make them not respect me? 
  • Where did I mess up? Where did I go wrong?
  • How did I lose the respect of this child who I really love so much?

The hard truth and a big piece of the parenting puzzle is:

You think your child doesn’t want to listen.

The truth is that there are times they biologically cannot listen to you; their brains are not able hear you. …Hold on, what? Let me explain this.

There’s a reason your child is not listening.

There is something going on for them that blocks their ability to hear you. 

Consider that your child not listening is a response to what’s going on inside of them. Consider that your child isn’t trying to be difficult – they’re having an experience in their brain and nervous system that literally cuts off their ability to hear you. It’s like you’re talking to them with a megaphone, but they’re wearing earplugs. 

And there’s likely a dynamic happening in your relationship that prevents you from hearing each other. (This is a common thing that happens between kids and parents – there’s no judgement here!)

You need to look deeper than what’s happening on the surface. Do you know what’s really going on underneath the surface of your child’s behavior? All behavior is communication. Your child is trying to communicate something to you and the only way they know how is by acting out. 

The behavior is not the problem…rather a window to what is really going on. 

This goes for all the disturbing behavior. It’s especially true for the intense meltdowns. 

There’s a reason why your child has such crazy aggressive reactions to what seems like nothing.

There is something triggering them and it’s likely that it’s not what you think it’s about. It’s not what it looks like on the surface. In your child’s highly charged emotional state, they can’t tell you what’s going on. They probably don’t even know what has caused them to have these big scary feelings. 

What your child needs most of all is for you to understand, so you can help them. 

Let’s break this down further by putting it in a different context:

Imagine you’re in an argument with your partner or a friend and it’s not going anywhere. They are not hearing you; they’re not trying to understand you, they just want you to agree with their point of view.

Do you get agitated? Do you want to lash out at them? Imagine if that person first took the time to try to really understand you and what was going on for you?

You feel seen, heard and understood for what your experience is. The dynamic completely changes.

That’s what we want to do with your relationship with your child. Change the dynamic. When your child feels that you are trying to understand them – that you really get them – everything changes.

You just want to feel seen, heard and understood, right? Your child does too. It’s a core need of every human. There’s always something going on in your child’s reality, and whether you agree with it or not – doesn’t matter.

It’s not about managing the behavior. 

Because trying to manage your child’s behavior is pointless if you don’t know what’s causing it. Your child is acting out in response to what’s going on in their brain and nervous system and how they’re perceiving things within their very limited developmental capacity.  

All this is really great news, because when you can make sense of it, then you can do things differently – you can change it.

Even if your child is having these horrible, super intense, aggressive meltdowns or going off the rails and doing scary things. Once you understand it, you can do things differently and change it. 

This is what I want you to hear – there’s a high chance…

  • You feel guilt.
  • There are things you wish you had done differently.
  • You’re not proud of some of the ways you have responded to your child’s behavior. 

I’m inviting you to approach this with a clean slate, ok? We’re going to imagine that none of that exists. Clean slate, no guilt. 

We’re not trying to fix you or make you better, because you are not broken. 

The way that you’ve been reacting to your child’s behavior is actually a normal nervous system response. And it’s so common; all parents react this way and you’re not alone. We think every other parent out there is calm and cool and has easy kids and we’re the only ones blowing our tops at our kids. And that’s not true at all.

Guilt is there with all the moms I work with. We just put all that’s happened in the past aside and we start fresh. Up until now you were not given the information that you need to know. 

It’s all about your relationship with your child.

It’s about seeing your child in a different way. Instead of focusing on the behavior, let’s focus on the child.

I’m going to show you how to move you from being an exhausted mom constantly managing behavior to being a calm, confident mom who has a connected, cooperative, respectful relationship with your child.

The goal is for you to learn how to: 

  • Stay calm, centered and grounded during your child’s worst outbursts.
  • Understand the brain and nervous system science behind your child’s behaviors.
  • Have a deeper understanding of your child and know exactly what to do to help them manage their big feelings. 
  • Create a relationship of trust and respect so your child wants to listen to you, cooperate with you and follow your lead.
  • Set healthy boundaries and limits with fewer meltdowns and power struggles
  • Have more fun with your kids and feel a sense of ease with them.
  • Feel a deeper sense of happiness and contentment with yourself.
Jane is a beautiful soul with so much knowledge, so many skills and so many extraordinary gifts. She consistently made me feel safe and seen, never judged. She lifted me up in ways I didn’t even know I needed. Her way is gentle but strong and incredibly effective. The impact of her influence is something I will carry with me for the rest of my life. This was the best gift I could have ever given myself and I will forever be grateful for her help
Jennifer S.

About Jane…

From Struggling Mom to Expert Transformational Parenting Coach…

I’m Jane Sheppard, Transformational Parenting Coach, National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, and Functional Medicine Health Coach. 

I work with moms who are at the end of their rope with their kids’ behavior and who are ready to become the empowered peaceful parent their kids need them to be. 

I’ve been where you are. My daughter’s strong will and intense emotional outbursts brought up all my feelings of inadequacy. She was a powerful force and pushed all my buttons. 

I thought I was doing all the right things, but nothing worked. But what I didn’t understand at that time, is what was happening in her brain and nervous system that caused her to be so intense and difficult. 

I didn’t understand her, so I didn’t know how to help her. Instead, I kept reacting to her behavior and we were in a continual spiral of power struggles and melt-downs. 

Jane Sheppard CPC, NBC-HWC

The neuroscience that we have available now simply was not available back in the 90s when I was raising my daughter. I did not have access to the knowledge and understanding we have now. I had to figure it out all alone, and I made a lot of mistakes. I wish I could go back and do it over, knowing what I know now. 

This is why I do what I do. I’ve combined my three decades of research, experience, and insight with extensive study into brain and nervous system science, child development, and the best parent coaching training and health coach training, so I can help other moms who are having a difficult time.

Additionally, with my extensive background in holistic medicine and children’s health, I have the unique ability to help parents with both the behavior/emotional aspects as well as the physical health imbalances, which is a very rare thing in a parenting coach. It’s my life’s work and calling to help other moms to replace harmful patterns with a more effective and peaceful approach to parenting. And this is exactly why you’re here! You can begin to turn it all around right now, so you can prevent any more heart-ache.

You’re about to learn something that most parents don’t know.

This is a path out of your current power struggles, towards a greater understanding and a deeper relationship with your child. This short and powerful course will make all the difference in your relationship with your child, so you can begin to show up as the parent you always wanted to be.

Yes, I Need This!

 

Solve Your Child’s Distressing Behavior and Explosive Meltdowns

Understand why they behave the way they do and know exactly what to do to change it and gain cooperation, respect and peace in your home.

I’m still marinating over this short course that packs so much wisdom. It has made more room for the possibility of exploration into my parenting patterns I haven’t considered before. My daughter and I are beginning to get along really well and I’m grateful. There has been a shift and I am so excited!! I have hope!
Michelle B.

Here are the modules you will get:

1

Module 1: Why Does Your Child Have These Big Emotional Outbursts?

  • We begin to look at the why behind the behavior. 
  • You’ll learn how your child’s brain develops and the two most important aspects of the brain that drive kids’ behavior. 
  • Understanding why they behave the way they do is the first step to changing it. 
2

Module 2:  How Your Child’s Rational Brain Gets Hijacked

  • What happens within your child’s brain and nervous system that can cause their behavior to become irrational and why they are not able to hear you. 
  • How this can show up as tantrums, meltdowns, and all sorts of emotional outbursts – with yelling, hitting, kicking, biting, screaming, or throwing things. Or it can show up as tuning you out or wanting to be left alone. 
  • Why your child has no control over it in the moment that it’s happening, and why, in this state, kids have a hard time understanding the consequences of their actions
3

Module 3:  Your Nervous System Reaction

  • What’s happening in your nervous system when your child goes into a meltdown, especially if they’re screaming mean things at you or trying to hit you.
  • Why it’s so hard to calm yourself when your child is melting down or not listening to you. 
  • The feelings that you are having when your child is acting out – are a normal stress reaction, your nervous system is designed to react this way. 
4

Module 4:  What Lies Beneath Your Child’s Behavior – part 1

  • What lies beneath your child’s behavior that you’re not able to see on the surface?
  • We take a deep dive into the most common things I see that cause kids to go into disturbing behavior. 
  • Parents are usually surprised at these realizations, since many times, it’s not about what’s happening in that moment. 
5

Module 5:  What Lies Beneath Your Child’s Behavior – part 2

  • We explore more of the emotional causes of what lies beneath your child’s behavior
  • We explore the physical imbalances in the body and brain that can cause aggressive behavior, meltdowns, ADHD, mood disorders, anxiety, depression.  Most parents aren’t aware of this critical piece.
  • You might be surprised how quickly behavior can change when, in addition to the emotional aspect, you find the physical imbalances and make some changes.
6

Module 6:  How to Respond to Your Child’s Behavior  

  • We explore the best way to respond to disturbing behavior to help your child with their big emotions, and how this ensures they will be able to manage their emotions on their own.
  • This way of responding creates trust and respect in your relationship with your child – this changes everything. 
  • Some of the popular parenting advice is to ignore a tantrum or to send kids into a time-out, or to take your own time out. I explain why this is the opposite of what’s needed and creates a never-ending cycle of meltdowns and disruptive behavior.
7

Module 7:  3-Step Process for Responding to Your Child’s Emotional Reactions

  • I break down a very effective 3-step process will help you and your child move through the big emotions so you can then solve the behavior issues.
  • This process really works for emotional outbursts and other upsetting behavior, whether your child is crying uncontrollably or angry and aggressive.
  • Once you have it down you can flip the switch within yourself in like 10 seconds or less when the behavior shows up.
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Module 8:  Discipline and Teaching Your Child to Do the Right Thing

  • Boundaries, rules and limits are definitely important in parenting. This is not permissive parenting.  You learn how to be really clear with your no, while you set limits with empathy.
  • Disciplining with punishment/consequences or rewards is the least effective way to parent. It usually ignores the underlying reason for the behavior, so behavior only gets worse. 
  • We explore what effective discipline really is and how to create intrinsic motivation (the internal desire to do good) in your child.
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Module 9:  How to PREVENT the Distressing Behavior

  • How to put this all into your day-to-day reality with your kids to PREVENT the disturbing behavior and all the unnecessary stress. 
  • We explore the most effective parenting tools that you always have available to you, and how to build ongoing intrinsic motivation, trust, respect and cooperation.
  • How to become the empowered leader in your family and set the tone for cooperation and respect between you and your kids. 

BONUS MODULE:  How to Respond to Your Child’s Meltdowns and Disturbing Behavior When Out in Public.

For a limited time, I’m adding a bonus module where I show you exactly what to do when you’re at a playground, a grocery store, or a playdate and your child is melting down or being aggressive with other kids. I tell you what to do in those highly embarrassing moments to calm yourself and your child and solve the behavior.

I created this course for busy moms, since I know you don’t have a lot of time. This entire course will take ­­­­­­no more than 90 minutes of your precious time. I’ve broken it down into short videos so you can watch a little at a time – or all at once. I also provide transcripts if you prefer to read.

You’ll be able to understand your child in a new way, and their terrible behavior will start to make sense to you. And you will know exactly what to do when your child is acting out or going into one of those horrible meltdowns. 

And you’re going to know what to do to PREVENT the disturbing behavior and all the unnecessary stress and get your kids to cooperate with you rather than against you. 

It’s time to show up as the parent you want to be.

I want you to be able to lay your head on your pillow at night and feel good about the way you parented that day. 

Imagine how you’d feel if you had a completely different parenting experience…

Your home has a relaxed, peaceful and fun atmosphere, and there is respect and cooperation between you and your kids. And you’re actually really enjoying them! The value of this course is extraordinary – considering it’s the beginning of a healthy connected relationship with your child that will last a lifetime. 

You get the entire 9 module course, plus the bonus module where I show you exactly what to do in public when your child acts out. 

10 powerful life-changing modules
for only $27

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This purchase is 100% risk-free. 

If for any reason you feel it’s not right for you, simply send me
an email within 30 days and I will immediately refund your entire $27. 

Don’t underestimate the power of this short course to change your life.

Parenting is taking on a hero’s journey. It might be the most difficult thing you’ll ever do, and way too difficult for anyone to do on their own.

This course is perfect for you if you…

  • Want to get to the root of your parenting struggles and know exactly what to do to stay calm and grounded when things get intense.
  • Want my effective 3 step process to guide you through your child’s biggest upsets and tantrums in a specific way that works for your unique child.
  • Want to get to the point where you no longer dread your child’s huge emotions.
  • Want to have a healthy relationship with your child that will last a lifetime.
  • Are ready to be an empowered peaceful parent and a strong leader in your family

It’s beyond words how rewarding it is to have a healthy relationship with your child that will last a lifetime.

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Yes, I Need This!

What is your life going to be like if you don’t watch this course? 

What if you pass this up and keep on doing what you’ve been doing? Or you try some other parenting advice that’s about managing the behavior, and you never get to the crux of the problem to resolve it? And your worst fears come true? Like your child becomes an angry, aggressive teen-ager, or the school calls you and says your child is not welcome there anymore. And you still have a rocky relationship with them – even when they become an adult and there’s no way you can help them at that point?

I know that in your heart of hearts, you dream of a better relationship with your child. You’re tired of the anxiety, confusion, and overwhelm. You’re ready for relief, clarity, and renewed confidence. You are ready to create a deeply connected and compassionate relationship with your child that will last a lifetime. 

You truly have nothing to lose and everything to gain, since your purchase is 100% risk-free

Try Solve Your Child’s Distressing Behavior and Explosive Meltdowns for 30 days and if you aren’t seeing results, I’ll give you every dollar back. 

Got Questions?

Why are you offering ALL of this for such a low cost?

I don’t want money to be a block to anyone getting this vital information. I want this to be in reach of the vast majority of moms. 

Because I know what a huge undertaking it is to be a mother – and children are our future. I believe with all my heart that you can actually change the future through your parenting – by raising children who know their worth, who grow up to have healthy relationships  – where they fully love themselves and have compassion for others. 

When do I get to start once I buy? 

As soon as you place your order, you’ll receive an email with access to a membership site with everything you need to get started immediately.

What if I realize this isn’t the right thing for me?

If for any reason you feel it’s not right for you, simply send me an email within 30 days and I will immediately refund your entire $27. 

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Yes, I Need This!